Your wedding is one magical day...

Let's prepare you

for a magical life.

Want an impactful premarital counseling experience without the church or traditional marriage counselor? Preaisle is for you!

Tonia’s three powerful sessions focus solely on you

~ the engaged couple ~

helping you build a strong foundation, turn the uncomfortable into comfortable, and prepare for a love that lasts.

With over 30 years of marriage experience, Tonia checks-in through your first anniversary to help smooth out any bumps along the way.

You shouldn't have to just HOPE that your marriage works out.

As a couple you are spending a tremendous amount of time planning for your wedding, but are you preparing for the decades that follow?

By having meaningful conversations and building a strong foundation, you won't have to just hope, you'll KNOW. You'll know you have chosen the right person and are being the right partner.

How has your past influenced your marriage

learn about YOU and bring your true self to your marriage

With Preaisle you'll discover how your past has influenced your views of marriage and how to incorporate both of your experiences into the greatest love story!

communication, conflict resolution, finances, and - of course - keeping the spark alive

three 90-minute sessions
in person or online

Each session builds onto the next with topics like communication, conflict resolution, finances, and - of course - keeping the spark alive for decades after the wedding.

This is a fantastic gift from parents or grandparents.

great gift for a newly
engaged couple

Many engaged couples desire to have some type of

pre-marriage commitment experience, but wedding costs can hinder them.  This is a fantastic gift from parents or grandparents.

Book a free 15-minute video consultation with Tonia to learn more about what your pre-marriage experience looks like with Preaisle.

Ready to learn more?

Book a free 15-minute video consultation with Tonia to learn more about what your pre-marriage experience looks like with Preaisle.

  • Learn what topics are covered in each of the sessions.

  • Ask questions that are specific to you and your stories.

  • Meet Tonia and make sure Preaisle fits with your vibe.

What Couples Say About Preaisle

Tonia just finished all of our Preaisle sessions, she is the best. We learned so much and had / will have conversations we would not have had without her. We recommend anyone getting married to meet with her.
Working with Tonia was such a wonderful experience. She created a space where we could have really meaningful conversations about the big things in our relationship while still keeping the sessions fun and relaxed. We laughed a lot during our meetings, which made it easy to open up and talk honestly. She guided us through important topics and helped us communicate in ways that strengthened our understanding of each other. Every session felt productive, and we always left feeling more connected and even more in love. We’re so grateful for the experience and would highly recommend her to any couple preparing for marriage!
We did three sessions with Tonia when we were engaged, and it was one of the most worthwhile things we did during that time. It’s casual, super thoughtful, and all about real connection. She works with couples to help build a strong foundation before marriage.
Your wedding is one unforgettable day, but your marriage is your forever. This printable Wedding & Marriage Planning Checklist helps you stay on track with all the to-dos and the to-talk-abouts.

Download your free wedding and marriage planning checklist!

Your wedding is one unforgettable day, but your marriage is your forever.

This printable Wedding & Marriage Planning Checklist helps you stay on track with all the to-dos and the to-talk-abouts.

Tonia Koss, Founder of Preaisle, is dedicated to helping engaged couples create strong, lasting marriages. She knows that while every relationship is unique, the foundation matters for everyone. That’s why she developed a proven curriculum designed to guide couples through the essential conversations before saying “I do”. This sets the stage for a lifetime of growth, partnership, and meaningful anniversary celebrations.

Meet Tonia

Tonia Koss, Founder of Preaisle, is dedicated to helping engaged couples create strong, lasting marriages.
She knows that while every relationship is unique, the foundation matters for everyone. That’s why she developed a proven curriculum designed to guide couples through the essential conversations before saying “I do”. This sets the stage for a lifetime of growth, partnership, and meaningful anniversary celebrations.

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